ROOT BOUND

My husband and I have this plant that we got just before we were married. It started out very small and sat in the kitchen window of our apartment. It’s been with us for over ten years…two moves…one cat…and two children! It has survived a lot!

We came home from the holidays recently to find it nearly dead. It sat there, having lost most of its leaves and its branches all dried up…more than ready to call it a day. “What do you think is wrong with it?”, I asked Steve…who possesses the green thumb in our house. “I think it’s root bound”, he told me…”it needs more room to grow”. Our poor plant was being held hostage in a pot that was too small for its spirit and now it was dying.

We all need room to grow sometimes. Room from work…room from relationships…room from our own self-induced limitations. Because we can all feel suffocated by the very things that are supposed to be helping us thrive. And we begin to wilt. We begin to suffer under the weight of our circumstances and lose pieces of ourselves as a result.

Knowing when to give your self space is hard.

Actually creating that space is even harder.

Because untangling your self from certain confines can be a really painful process. And when we moved our plant to its new pot, the situation actually got a lot worse before it got better.

Things got really messy for a while…parts of the plant broke and needed time to heal…and even once the mess was all cleaned up; we weren’t entirely sure if it was going to survive.

So we just had to wait.

Because giving your self room often means feeling a bit lonely in unfamiliar territory.

It often means sitting through discomfort and being treated with care.

It often means just having enough grace to let time play its part.

But the good news is…that our plant is starting to show signs of life again. Slowly but surely, as each day passes, new leaves are growing…its branches are mending…and its spirit is reaching.

Slowly but surely, its healing.

And if my sweet plant has taught me anything…it’s that some things in life really can’t be rushed.

And coming back to life is one them.

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